The BSB Matrix January 26-27 2018

        ***** NEW LOCATION******* DoubleTree By Hilton- Silver Spring


 Welcome to The Matrix Color Him Red Reloaded- Wife-Life in 5G. There used to be a time where you would watch TV and think I want that for my marriage. Maybe it was the passion, the romance, the devotion that you admired. Unfortunately, not a lot of television shows reflect that kind of marriage, but you can still have it especially if you desire it. The Bible says Delight Yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart. I believe that you can create the marriage that you desire and make it your reality. And you are going to do it with passion, love, integrity and boldness.


The goal of the conference is to teach wives how to be bold according to biblical principles, how to be passionate in and outside of the bedroom and how to cultivate a powerful bond within your marriages.

2018 The BSB Matrix

Teachers & Speakers

Gail Crowder– Conference Host & BSB Founder

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Gail Crowder is a wife of 28 years, mother of two and the Founder and President of Bringing Sexy Back to the Marriage (BSB). BSB is a conference dedicated to the spiritual and sexual enhancement of marriages for the modern-day wife. Gail has been responsible for spicing up thousands of marriages through the BSB conference and continues to change lives every day. An author, stylist and consultant; Gail has appeared on dozens of television and radio shows as a specialist and seasoned lifestyle expert.

In addition to BSB, Gail Crowder has founded several other enterprises including, Gail Crowder, Inc., a full service image consulting firm in Maryland; One Sexy Wife, which currently offers specialty novelty items and apparel; and Glamour At Its Latest (G.A.I.L), an image consulting brand dedicated to transforming its clients through its motto of “Your Life, Your Style Your Image”. With over two decades of professional experience in the styling and image industry, Gail dedicates her time to building the self-perception, public image, spiritual values and individual life purpose of her clients.

As a member and former Vice President of Education for the Washington DC Chapter of the Association of Image Consultants International, Gail has authored five books, “Your Purse Sized Fashion Guide”, “Chronicles of Real Sexy Wives” , “Tall Glass of Water”,  “Bringing Sexy Back To Your marriage” and NEW release “KEEP YOUR LEGS OPEN” . Her extensive educational, professional and personal experience and commitment to community makes her a highly regarded teacher, speaker and workshop facilitator.

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Sonia M. Benson

“The Show’s”- The Show/ Midnight Is An In Your Face, Intense Hands-On Class For The Woman That Is Serious About Pleasing Her Man. Enrollment Is Limited To Allow Intimate Individual Review Of The Various Techniques That Will Be Taught.

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Sonia M. Benson is a well-known and respected Sexpert, Intimacy and relationship coach, transformational speaker, group facilitator, Reiki practitioner and Bedroom Kandi Consultant in the Washington, DC metropolitan area. She founded and provides workshop facilitation, intimacy and spiritual life coaching and healing services through her private practice, Dewing You. Through Dewing You, Sonia supports women in the reclaiming of themselves—their lives, their bodies and their power. Dewing You hosts workshops, classes and retreats that cover a myriad of female issues including self-esteem, menstruation, sexuality and self-care. Sonia has touched hundreds of women’s lives utilizing group facilitation, life coaching and other healing modalities including meditation, prayer and Reiki.

Sonia has received facilitation training through a number of organizations, the most prominent being the Ascend Spiritual Flight Academy, the Ascend Academy for Advanced Wisdom, Positive Behavior Facilitation (PBF) through ROCKET, Inc, and the Inner Visions Institute for Spiritual Development founded by Iyanla Vanzant, inspirational speaker, author and television personality of Iyanla Fix My Life on the OWN Network.

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Ashley Gilbert

FACTOR FIVE- Ashley Gilbert- The Dance Factor

It’s time to make it rain in YOUR bedroom! Professional dancer and teacher Ashley Gilbert is going to guide you through communicating sex, romance through the art of sensual chair dancing. Come learn to release your inner DIVA!

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Ashley Gilbert founder of I CAN, LLC is a Dance and Movement Life Coach. She has taught interpretive hip hop, and inspirational/motivational dance for over 10 years. Ashley has a passion to bring about self-awareness and empowerment through movement in women of all ages.



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Kim Reed-Butler

Host & Life After Infidelity

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Kim, who claims New York and New Jersey as home, has been living in the Maryland area since 1991 along with her husband, Reggie. Kim and Reggie have been married for 31 years. They are the proud parents of 3 sons and 1 daughter-in-law, Philip and his wife, Curtresse, Travis and Jarrhett and two grandbabies, Michael & Edmund.

As a young child, Kim’s plan was to become a doctor but after having her youngest child, she decided to attend Dudley Beauty College in Washington, DC. She’s now a licensed Senior Cosmetologist. Though becoming a cosmetologist was not a part of the “plan”, it’s become her passion and she’s been in the industry for 22 years. Kim’s passion for healthy hair has pushed her to educate herself to become an industry expert. She stays abreast of the latest trends, cutting styles and techniques, as well as make-up artistry. This has enabled Kim to focus on the changes and improvements of the products she chooses and strongly endorses. Kim strongly emphasizes the importance of healthy hair and why you need to have someone who is not willing to compromise the integrity of your hair.  Her motto is “if your hair is healthy you can do anything you like with it.”

For the past 3 years, Kim has expanded her healthy hair passion to include the whole body….she is a Personal Wellness Coach with Herbalife International helping others become “nutritionally fit” from the inside out. Kim has found that being a Coach is the perfect “marriage”/partner to her passion of healthy hair; your nutrition, or lack thereof, greatly impacts EVERYTHING. She creates meal and personalized nutrition plans to help her clients achieve their goals, whether it is to lose weight, gain weight, increase their lean muscle mass, increase their energy or improve their health overall. Kim has added another motto, “cherish the BODY you have, for it’s the ONLY one you get.” Kim commits herself to your journey by coaching you to your finish line. Kim wants you to look good and feel good!

Michele’s Healing Hands


Sebrena Lowe

Wife-Life Class-Life After Infidelity

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Sebrena Lowe is fondly known as the “Worshiping Warrior” and recognizes and often states “I get to do this”, to break open the atmosphere for God to move, to see God’s people worship Him with no limits. She was ordained to minister the word of God in October 2005, as well as trained extensively in inner healing and deliverance ministry and has passionately continued to grow and move forward in the will of God. She has been working in ministry for over 15 years alongside her husband, Michael. Two of her greatest passions aside from God and family are marriage and worship. She hosts monthly Soaking Services that usher people into the presence of God to experience a new level of intimacy.

Sebrena Lowe and has been married for 14 years to Michael Lowe. They have four gifted children.

Wife-Life Sessions

Included In Conference Package

Loving Through Addiction

Dealing with Addictive behavior: Addiction is a word that often causes shame, anger and even defeat in the minds of wives whether the addictive behavior is yours or your spouses. Learn how to address common additions like pornography, drugs, obsession in a way that you will leave victorious, capable of conquering the behavior for good.

This Class is included in your Registration but you must register!

Keeping It Tight and Right

When you looked in the mirror for the first time after your child was born, did you see yourself as ‘a mommy’ or ‘your man’s hot mama’?  Still struggling with your weight’? If you desire the body that your husband lusted for before the baby, take great notes in this class! Regardless if it’s been 20 years or 2 weeks since your baby was born, this class will guide you in step-by-step techniques and programs that will bring your tight, right sexy pre-baby body back….all without plastic surgery.

This Class is included in your Registration but you must register!

How To Walk In Forgiveness

We must develop and maintain the capacity to forgive. He who is devoid of the power to forgive is devoid of the power to love. There is some good in the worst of us and some evil in the best of us. When we discover this, we are less prone to hate our enemies.  In this class you will learn to forgive yourself, your husband and anyone who has hurt you!

This Class is included in your Registration but you must register!


The Art Of The STRIP !
Ripping off each other’s clothes and hitting the sheets can be fun. But slowing down  the process makes sex hotter. Come see how you can give him a full-on striptease, or just make getting naked a little more exciting! You will learn a tantalizing dance to seduce your husband with every inch of your body!

In this interactive class you will learn:

  • How to PEEL off  layers with style and sexy grace!
  • How to take control, seduce and keep both your husband’s eyes on you!
  • How to set the stage (your bedroom) for THE ART OF THE STRIP
  • How to execute your STRIP dance like a pro!

(Class is limited to only 8 wives)

The Show – The Show Is An In Your Face, Intense Hands-On Class For The Woman That Is Serious About Pleasing Her Man. Enrollment Is Limited To Allow Intimate Individual Review Of The Various Techniques That Will Be Taught. Seats are limited!

The Midnight Show is ONLY for the ladies that have completed ‘The Show’ at a previous BSB conference.

This intense interactive class advances and builds upon the skills acquired in the foundation course. It is truly for the woman who is passionate about pleasing her man.

Doors open at 11:45pm and class begins at Midnight!

Class includes non-alcoholic beverages and light fare.

Enrollment is Limited to Allow Intimate Individual Review of Skills.

Boudoir Photography

He wants it. You got it. Time to show him ALL about it!

Silk. Lace.  A ribbon. Your birthday suit.

Our Boudoir photo experience WILL bring

SEXXXY back to YOUR marriage.

Book now as these slots fill quickly!


  • Includes 30 minute session
  • Private Online Gallery
  • 1- 5 x 7 (Download) photo of your choice

Boudoir Makeup!

Boudoir Photography Makeup Session

Now you can add a glam factor to your Boudoir photo shoot! Come get your express face “BEAT” by the one and only Shalah.  $30.00 gets you photo shoot ready! Register Now space is limited.

**** Lashes NOT included; will be available or applied for extra charge*****


***********NEW LOCATION**************

DoubleTree by Hilton Hotel- LAUREL

Address: Address: 15101 Sweitzer Ln, Laurel, MD 20707

Phone: (301) 776-5300

Room Rate: $99.00 For a single or Double

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***A $30.00 refundable incidental will be charged to your credit card at the time of your room reservation***

2017 Schedule

Friday January 27, 2017

12:00 BSB M.R.S. Factor registration opens

1:30-2:30 How To Love Without Losing Yourself- Gail Crowder

2:30-4:30 Life After Infidelity– Butler/Lowe

3:00-4:30 The Show (Sextra)-Sonia M. Benson

5:00-6:00 Staying Power– Sonya J. Wells

5:00 OSW Haute Shop Opens

7:00-10:00 Girlfriend Dinner Party

9:00-9:45 Factor One: The “MRS” Manifesto – Gail Crowder

10:30-11:30 The Art Of The Strip (Sextra)- Ashley Gilbert

11:45 PM- 1:00AM The Show (Sextra)- Sonia M. Benson

10:30-11:30 – Release, Revive, Refresh- Exhale! – Sonya J. Wells

Saturday January 28, 2017

9:00-10:15 FACTOR Two- Dr. Trenace Richardson- A True “MRS” learns how to surrender

10:30-11:15 FACTOR Three- Wife By Design- Gail Crowder

11:30-12:00 Hotel Checkout/ Games and Give-a-ways

12:00-1:30 Lunch (On your own)

1:45- 2:15 FACTOR Four- Kiki Ramsey- Repairing the “Slow” leaks in your marriage

2:30- 3:30 FACTOR Five- Ashley Gilbert- The “Sultry” Dance

3:45-4:30 FACTOR Six-Kimberly Vankline- The Savory, Sexy, Sassy Chef

4:45-5:15 FACTOR Seven- Gail Crowder- Balancing Act

5:30-6:00  OSW Group Photo

****Schedule is subject to change without notice: Please visit website often for updates.



What is Bringing Sexy Back to the Marriage all about?

BSB is a premier organization that provides holistic marriage enhancing, scripture-based education to the modern wife for inspiring self-realization and spiritual exploration, igniting couples intimacy, and increasing sexual satisfaction within the marriage.

We achieve this by focusing on 3 aspects:

Self Realization & Spiritual Exploration

  • Feel sexy and confident, develop self-love and acceptance, and take home a strategy to finally have the marriage of your dreams.
  • Acquire techniques to enhance your beauty and create a balance between work, family, and marriage.
  • Apply Christian principles towards marriage and family life issues.

Sexual Satisfaction

  • Discover the vital role sex plays in the marriage for men and help your husband become a confident man and thriving provider by understanding and meeting his emotional needs.
  • Increase sexual pleasure by discovering his and her erogenous zones and learn how and when to touch them. Learn how to apply reative sexual positions and physical exploration for longer lasting lovemaking.
  • Prime yourself mentally and physically for sex by learning the art of seduction and realize his and her fantasies with improved communication skills.

Couples Intimacy

  • Cement your couple’s emotional bond by learning how to engage in straightforward and compassionate conversations.
  • Dive deeper into the sexual aspect of your marriage, fully understand your marital duties, and better relate your emotional needs to your spouse.
  • Significantly decrease the chances of infidelity and divorce and create emotional security by learning how to meet your husband’s physical and emotional needs.

Does the registration fee include my room?

No.  In order to reserve your room you must go through the hotel.

What is included in my registration?

This price includes the following Friday Girlfriend’s Dinner Party, breakfast, and all conference materials This excludes the special workshop, “The Show” Mid-Night Show, Boudoir Photos or Art Of The Striptease.

What is the cancellation and refund policy?

All registrations are final and payment in full is required at time of registration. In order for us to bring you continued value, we cannot provide refunds or exchanges.

Cancellations & Refunds

Cancellation and Refund Policy

All registrations are final and payment in full is required at time of registration. In order for us to bring you continued value, we cannot provide refunds or exchanges.


Dress Code:

Whatever makes you feel Confident, Sexy and Happy! So in other words Casual Chic!

Area Airports

Area Airports:

Baltimore/Washington International Thurgood Marshall Airport – BWI

Visit BWI airport website

Airport Phone: 1 410 859 7111

Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport – DCA

Visit DCA airport website

Airport Phone: 1 703 417 8000

Washington Dulles International Airport – IAD

Visit IAD airport website

Airport Phone: 1 703 572 2700



Food is included for the Friday night “Girlfriends” dinner party. Lunch on Saturday is on your own.   There are a variety of affordable restaurants within driving distance of the hotel. The hotel will have an Express lunch menu for BSB.

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