The BSB Matrix January 26-27 2018

***** NEW LOCATION******* DoubleTree By Hilton- Silver Spring

Welcome to The Matrix Color Him Red Reloaded- Wife-Life in 5G. There used to be a time where you would watch TV and think I want that for my marriage. Maybe it was the passion, the romance, the devotion that you admired. Unfortunately, not a lot of television shows reflect that kind of marriage, but you can still have it especially if you desire it.

The Bible says Delight Yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart. I believe that you can create the marriage that you desire and make it your reality. And you can do it with passion, love, integrity and boldness. The goal of the conference is to teach wives how to be bold according to biblical principles, how to be passionate in and outside of the bedroom and how to cultivate a powerful bond within your marriages.

2018 The BSB Matrix

Teachers & Speakers

Class Description:

Heels and Hose = Hottie! There’s nothing sexier than long, lean legs in stockings wearing High Heels. Fashion Expert and Founder of the BSB Conference, Gail Crowder will teach you how to hide your flaws, accentuate your assets and strut your stuff with confidence… just your Heels and Hose.  This class is guaranteed to be Hot, Hot, Hot!

Gails Bio:

Gail Crowder is a wife of 28 years, mother of two and the Founder and President of Bringing Sexy Back to the Marriage (BSB). BSB is a conference dedicated to the spiritual and sexual enhancement of marriages for the modern-day wife. Gail has been responsible for spicing up thousands of marriages through the BSB conference and continues to change lives every day. An author, stylist and consultant; Gail has appeared on dozens of television and radio shows as a specialist and seasoned lifestyle expert.

In addition to BSB, Gail Crowder has founded several other enterprises including, Gail Crowder, Inc., a full service image consulting firm in Maryland; One Sexy Wife, which currently offers specialty novelty items and apparel; and Glamour At Its Latest (G.A.I.L), an image consulting brand dedicated to transforming its clients through its motto of “Your Life, Your Style Your Image”. With over two decades of professional experience in the styling and image industry, Gail dedicates her time to building the self-perception, public image, spiritual values and individual life purpose of her clients.

As a member and former Vice President of Education for the Washington DC Chapter of the Association of Image Consultants International, Gail has authored five books, “Your Purse Sized Fashion Guide”, “Chronicles of Real Sexy Wives” , “Tall Glass of Water”,  “Bringing Sexy Back To Your marriage” and NEW release “KEEP YOUR LEGS OPEN” . Her extensive educational, professional and personal experience and commitment to community makes her a highly regarded teacher, speaker and workshop facilitator.

Class Description:

God’s Design for Intimacy & Pleasure in marriage—Intimacy is vital for all relationships and Pleasure was God’s idea….  Trenace Richardson will expose the original intent of both in the context of marriage.

Trenace Bio:

Trenace Richardson is a nationally-recognized speaker, preacher, vocalist, and mentor dedicated to helping women grow, connect, and lead from the soul. The creator of REAL Women, an intimate, safe place for women to do real work on themselves. Trenace’s ministry experiences have included overseeing Christian Education, leading praise and worship, conducting ministers’ trainings, and teaching Bible studies for all age groups. Dr. Richardson earned a Master of Divinity degree from Howard University and a doctorate in Higher Education Administration from The George Washington University. Dr. Richardson is a published author, having written on the spirituality and leadership practices of Black women college presidents, servant leadership, spirituality in the workplace, and leadership development.

Trenace is blessed to be the wife of Gregory Richardson and they have two beautiful children, Nhi’ya and Nigel.

Class Description:

The Art Of Touch- Sensual Massage—–In this class Lisa will teach massage techniques that aim to integrate the sexual, spiritual and physical, sides of massage. To allow you to understand the power that you possess as a wife when you “TOUCH” your husband.

Lisa´s Bio:

The best life lesson entrepreneur Lisa Schudel received was from her dad. He told her if she could find something to do that she loved, it would never feel like work. It took a little time, but at 31, Lisa finally uncovered her life’s passion in the health and wellness field.

Lisa launched into entrepreneurship in the early 90’s and was profitable from the beginning. But eight years into her massage therapy practice, she redefined what successful business ownership looked like for herself. Today, whether she is working with clients on her massage table or sharing with them a convenient way to add the nutrition of fruits and vegetables to their daily routine, Lisa is living out her personal mission. She helps everyone who is open to make lifestyle choices, which could stop preventable diseases in their tracks and live a longer, fuller, and healthier life.

Class Description:

Arousing Passion in Marriage- Passion is described as a powerful and compelling emotion or sexual desire. Couples with passion can’t wait to see each other, can barely keep their hands off each other and can sometimes become aroused at just the mention of their lover’s name. Life can sometimes

LaVonne’s Bio:

Rev. Dr. La Vonne D. Shaw was born in Panama, Central America, to Robert Rawles, a Viralogist at NIH and to Josephine Rawles an Educator for the District of Columbia public school system.  She attended the University of the District of Columbia were she had a duel majored in Computer Science

and Communication. She also had a minor in Journalism. Dr. Shaw also attended Ever Increasing Word Training Center and currently enrolled in Breakthrough Bible College.
In 1982, La  Vonne began a career at the Central Intellegence Agency, in Virginia, and continue to work there over ten years until she accepted the call on her Life to move into Fulltime ministry.
In 2008, La Vonne began her journey of writing. In 2010, she open their publishing company and self published her first book entitled “Sex Between the Sheets; What God Allows!” A Christian Sex Guide with Bibical principals. This book allowed La Vonne a different Platform where she is now better known as “The Erogenous Coach” and “Transforming marriages” around the World! La Vonne has also contributed to other network platforms, including The Dr. OZ Show, Beloved Magazine and currently a Radio Host for World Power Gospel Radio WPGR, where her and husband Elder Michael Shaw have a weekly Global program “Marital Enrichment Matters.” Their third week on the station, their show went to the number one spot and has held the Number one show for the past five years.
In 2014 Rev. Dr. La Vonne and Elder Michael, open the doors of their ministry Majestic Life Global Ministries in Fort Washington, Maryland. With our growing congregation we believe in doing ministry beyond our four walls.
A personable and humble woman, Rev. Dr. LaVonne has been honored to share in ministry across the world with husband Elder Michael Shaw, to whom she has been in marital bliss with for 15 years, they have a beautiful daughter, who’s birth was a miracle and they have three teenage bonus (foster) daughters (and counting). They reside in Clinton/Accokeek Maryland area.


suck the passion out of a marriage. LaVonne Shaw will teach you how to re-establish passion in your marriage that cannot be extinguished.

Class Description:

Keeping the home fire burning!  -Mayra is prepared to teach you how to bring home the bacon, fry it up in the pan and never let your husband forget he’s a man. In this class, you will learn practical tips and tools of organization and time management that every Sexy wife needs to know in order to keep her King IN the Castle, and grinning from ear to ear while he’s there.

Mayra’s Bio:

Mayra Figueroa-Clark is passionate about propelling individuals towards their destined purpose partner. As well as creating a safe, nurturing space where relationships can flourish. As a certified Life Coach, and Professional Speaker, Mayra seizes every opportunity to help both women overcome the challenges that hinder their relationships. Mayra empowers women to take charge of the difficult situations standing in the way of the love they seek and to make impactful changes on a daily basis.
Mayra has been affectionally coined “The Love Expert” and can be found speaking to women about their fears, fumbles and fantasy that hold them back from an authentic relationship. Her straight-talking approach ignites and inspires!
She will help you understand the science of love, communicate effectively with the opposite gender and how to break down those relationship barriers.
Mayra helps you experience and express your authentic self, while teaching specific strategies in Living Intentionally, Loving Intentionally and Being Intentional.

“The Show’s”

The Show/ Midnight Is An In Your Face, Intense Hands-On Class For The Woman That Is Serious About Pleasing Her Man. Enrollment Is Limited To Allow Intimate Individual Review Of The Various Techniques That Will Be Taught.

Sonia´s Bio:

Sonia M. Benson is a well-known and respected Sexpert, Intimacy and relationship coach, transformational speaker, group facilitator, Reiki practitioner and Bedroom Kandi Consultant in the Washington, DC metropolitan area. She founded and provides workshop facilitation, intimacy and spiritual life coaching and healing services through her private practice, Dewing You. Through Dewing You, Sonia supports women in the reclaiming of themselves—their lives, their bodies and their power. Dewing You hosts workshops, classes and retreats that cover a myriad of female issues including self-esteem, menstruation, sexuality and self-care. Sonia has touched hundreds of women’s lives utilizing group facilitation, life coaching and other healing modalities including meditation, prayer and Reiki.

Sonia has received facilitation training through a number of organizations, the most prominent being the Ascend Spiritual Flight Academy, the Ascend Academy for Advanced Wisdom, Positive Behavior Facilitation (PBF) through ROCKET, Inc, and the Inner Visions Institute for Spiritual Development founded by Iyanla Vanzant, inspirational speaker, author and television personality of Iyanla Fix My Life on the OWN Network.

You can follow and contact Sonia on her websites, and, and her social media sites, and

Class Description:

Burlesque-Every Sexy Wife needs to know how to both tease and please her man. Professional dancer and teacher Ashley Gilbert is going to guide you through communicating sex, romance through the art of sensual chair dancing.

Ashley’s Bio:

Ashley Gilbert founder of I CAN, LLC is a Dance and Movement Life Coach. She has taught interpretive hip hop, and inspirational/motivational dance for over 10 years. Ashley has a passion to bring about self-awareness and empowerment through movement in women of all ages.


Kim, who claims New York and New Jersey as home, has been living in the Maryland area since 1991 along with her husband, Reggie. Kim and Reggie have been married for 31 years. They are the proud parents of 3 sons and 1 daughter-in-law, Philip and his wife, Curtresse, Travis and Jarrhett and two grandbabies, Michael & Edmund.

As a young child, Kim’s plan was to become a doctor but after having her youngest child, she decided to attend Dudley Beauty College in Washington, DC. She’s now a licensed Senior Cosmetologist. Though becoming a cosmetologist was not a part of the “plan”, it’s become her passion and she’s been in the industry for 22 years. Kim’s passion for healthy hair has pushed her to educate herself to become an industry expert. She stays abreast of the latest trends, cutting styles and techniques, as well as make-up artistry. This has enabled Kim to focus on the changes and improvements of the products she chooses and strongly endorses. Kim strongly emphasizes the importance of healthy hair and why you need to have someone who is not willing to compromise the integrity of your hair.  Her motto is “if your hair is healthy you can do anything you like with it.”

For the past 3 years, Kim has expanded her healthy hair passion to include the whole body….she is a Personal Wellness Coach with Herbalife International helping others become “nutritionally fit” from the inside out. Kim has found that being a Coach is the perfect “marriage”/partner to her passion of healthy hair; your nutrition, or lack thereof, greatly impacts EVERYTHING. She creates meal and personalized nutrition plans to help her clients achieve their goals, whether it is to lose weight, gain weight, increase their lean muscle mass, increase their energy or improve their health overall. Kim has added another motto, “cherish the BODY you have, for it’s the ONLY one you get.” Kim commits herself to your journey by coaching you to your finish line. Kim wants you to look good and feel good!

Michele’s Healing Hands


Wife-Life Sessions

Included In Conference Package

Dealing with Addictive behavior: Addiction is a word that often causes shame, anger and even defeat in the minds of wives whether the addictive behavior is yours or your spouses. Learn how to address common additions like pornography, drugs, obsession in a way that you will leave victorious, capable of conquering the behavior for good.

This Class is included in your Registration but you must register!

When you looked in the mirror for the first time after your child was born, did you see yourself as ‘a mommy’ or ‘your man’s hot mama’?  Still struggling with your weight’? If you desire the body that your husband lusted for before the baby, take great notes in this class! Regardless if it’s been 20 years or 2 weeks since your baby was born, this class will guide you in step-by-step techniques and programs that will bring your tight, right sexy pre-baby body back….all without plastic surgery.

This Class is included in your Registration but you must register!

We must develop and maintain the capacity to forgive. He who is devoid of the power to forgive is devoid of the power to love. There is some good in the worst of us and some evil in the best of us. When we discover this, we are less prone to hate our enemies.  In this class you will learn to forgive yourself, your husband and anyone who has hurt you!

This Class is included in your Registration but you must register!

Ripping off each other’s clothes and hitting the sheets can be fun. But slowing down  the process makes sex hotter. Come see how you can give him a full-on striptease, or just make getting naked a little more exciting! You will learn a tantalizing dance to seduce your husband with every inch of your body!

In this interactive class you will learn:

  • How to PEEL off  layers with style and sexy grace!
  • How to take control, seduce and keep both your husband’s eyes on you!
  • How to set the stage (your bedroom) for THE ART OF THE STRIP
  • How to execute your STRIP dance like a pro!

(Class is limited to only 8 wives)

The Show – The Show Is An In Your Face, Intense Hands-On Class For The Woman That Is Serious About Pleasing Her Man. Enrollment Is Limited To Allow Intimate Individual Review Of The Various Techniques That Will Be Taught. Seats are limited!

The Midnight Show is ONLY for the ladies that have completed ‘The Show’ at a previous BSB conference.

This intense interactive class advances and builds upon the skills acquired in the foundation course. It is truly for the woman who is passionate about pleasing her man.

Doors open at 11:45pm and class begins at Midnight!

Class includes non-alcoholic beverages and light fare.

Enrollment is Limited to Allow Intimate Individual Review of Skills.

He wants it. You got it. Time to show him ALL about it!

Silk. Lace.  A ribbon. Your birthday suit.

Our Boudoir photo experience WILL bring

SEXXXY back to YOUR marriage.

Book now as these slots fill quickly!


  • Includes 30 minute session
  • Private Online Gallery
  • 1- 5 x 7 (Download) photo of your choice

Now you can add a glam factor to your Boudoir photo shoot! Come get your express face “BEAT” by the one and only Shalah.  $30.00 gets you photo shoot ready! Register Now space is limited.

**** Lashes NOT included; will be available or applied for extra charge*****

***********NEW LOCATION**************

DoubleTree by Hilton Hotel Downtown – Silver Spring

Address: 8727 Colesville Rd, Silver Spring, MD 20910

Phone: (301) 589-5200

Room Rate: $99.00 For a single or Double

ROOM Block Link Coming Soon!


***A $30.00 refundable incidental will be charged to your credit card at the time of your room reservation***

Friday January 26, 2018

12:00 BSB The MATRIX registration opens

1:30-2:30 How To Walk In Forgiveness- Gail Crowder

2:30-4:30 Keeping It Tight And Right– Lisa Schudel

3:00-4:30 The Show (Sextra)-Sonia M. Benson

5:00-6:00 Loving Through Addiction – Ashley Gilbert

5:00 OSW Haute Shop Opens

7:00-10:00 Girlfriend Dinner Party

9:00-9:45 Wife-Life One: God’s Design for Intimacy & Pleasure in marriage – Trenace Richardson

10:30-11:30 The Art Of The Strip (Sextra)- Ashley Gilbert

11:45 PM- 1:00AM The Show (Sextra)- Sonia M. Benson

10:30-11:30 – Exhale! – Gail Crowder


Saturday January 27, 2018

9:00-10:15 Wife-Life Two– Keeping the home fire burning!- Mayra Figueroa-Clark

10:30-11:00 Wife-Life Three– Wife By Design- Gail Crowder

11:10-12:00 Hotel Checkout/ Games and Give-a-ways

12:00-1:30 Lunch (On your own)

1:45- 2:15 Wife-Life Four– Arousing Passion in Marriage – LaVonne Shaw

2:30- 3:30 Wife-Life Five– The Art Of Touch- Lisa Schudel

3:30-4:30 Wife- Life Six– Burlesque “Sultry” Dance- Ashley Gilbert

4:45-5:15 Wife-Life Seven– Heels & Hose=Hottie- Gail Crowder

5:30-6:00  OSW Group Photo

****Schedule is subject to change without notice: Please visit website often for updates.

What is Bringing Sexy Back to the Marriage all about?

BSB is a premier organization that provides holistic marriage enhancing, scripture-based education to the modern wife for inspiring self-realization and spiritual exploration, igniting couples intimacy, and increasing sexual satisfaction within the marriage.

We achieve this by focusing on 3 aspects:

Self Realization & Spiritual Exploration

  • Feel sexy and confident, develop self-love and acceptance, and take home a strategy to finally have the marriage of your dreams.
  • Acquire techniques to enhance your beauty and create a balance between work, family, and marriage.
  • Apply Christian principles towards marriage and family life issues.

Sexual Satisfaction

  • Discover the vital role sex plays in the marriage for men and help your husband become a confident man and thriving provider by understanding and meeting his emotional needs.
  • Increase sexual pleasure by discovering his and her erogenous zones and learn how and when to touch them. Learn how to apply reative sexual positions and physical exploration for longer lasting lovemaking.
  • Prime yourself mentally and physically for sex by learning the art of seduction and realize his and her fantasies with improved communication skills.

Couples Intimacy

  • Cement your couple’s emotional bond by learning how to engage in straightforward and compassionate conversations.
  • Dive deeper into the sexual aspect of your marriage, fully understand your marital duties, and better relate your emotional needs to your spouse.
  • Significantly decrease the chances of infidelity and divorce and create emotional security by learning how to meet your husband’s physical and emotional needs.

Does the registration fee include my room?

No.  In order to reserve your room you must go through the hotel.

What is included in my registration?

This price includes the following Friday Girlfriend’s Dinner Party and all conference materials This excludes the special workshop, “The Show” Mid-Night Show, Boudoir Photos or Art Of The Striptease.

What is the cancellation and refund policy?

All registrations are final and payment in full is required at time of registration. In order for us to bring you continued value, we cannot provide refunds or exchanges.

Cancellation and Refund Policy

All registrations are final and payment in full is required at time of registration. In order for us to bring you continued value, we cannot provide refunds or exchanges.

Dress Code:

Whatever makes you feel Confident, Sexy and Happy! So in other words Casual Chic!

Area Airports:

Baltimore/Washington International Thurgood Marshall Airport – BWI

Visit BWI airport website

Airport Phone: 1 410 859 7111

Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport – DCA

Visit DCA airport website

Airport Phone: 1 703 417 8000

Washington Dulles International Airport – IAD

Visit IAD airport website

Airport Phone: 1 703 572 2700

Food is included for the Friday night “Girlfriends” dinner party. Lunch on Saturday is on your own.   There are a variety of affordable restaurants within walking/ driving distance of the hotel. The hotel will have an Express lunch menu for BSB.